not that bad; never that bad



Smile and live. That's the easiest way to get through a day. Without glitches of course. Say too little and leave with nothing. Say too much and leave feeling that you've gave out too much of yourself.

So the best way to act during the meeting of a bunch of strangers: Smile, and ... That's it.

If people want to know more about you, they'll ask. Don't offer anything of yourself. Focus on them. Let them talk bout themselves. Say their name. Smile. And when they say something that you have a common opinion on, say so. If you oppose, keep it to yourself. Noone likes to hear a stranger's opposing comments.

Then, if you follow all these, the first day won't be so bad. In fact, it was never that bad.

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I am a student in the art of leadership. I have realized my motivation in life. To lead. I don't want to be an engineer at the end of the day. Nor do I want to sit in a room counting money. These are just steps to a bigger picture in life. I want to lead. Somewhere, somehow, the only way to really make a difference and is fulfilling enough in nature is the ability to lead. Engineering for me... is just a stepping stone. From an engineer I can become a project manager. But to be a project manager I musn't be afraid of the product. Thus I must be proficient in some type of technology. However, I cannot just rely on one set of skills. I need to know how to remain connected with the "blood" that keeps the world turning. It's money. No matter how hard you try to deny it, it's money that keeps us alive, that drives the human passion. And to be able to tap into the human passion, I need to know how the brain works, and its motivation -- money.

If I have both of these skills, I can both know the poosibilities of the human mind -- technology, and its limitations -- money.

So I'll be okay as long as I remember what I'm doing.

A leader can survive anywhere, as long as there are people.

I do believe I'll spend my whole life learning to be a better leader.

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hehe. just random thoughts.

|| Pinch me. || 10:22 PM

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